EX-BOYFRIEND'S...

I've noticed that A LOT of females try and remain friends with the Ex's. NO BUENO. Been there. Tried that. YOU CAN NOT be friends with an ex boyfriend who couldn't even be a good boyfriend in the relationship. LOL . Impossible. Just because you have the "friend" title now doesn't mean he's changed. Some ex boyfriend's you can be REALLY great friends with. Those are the ones who didn't do shit to hurt you in the relationship. Those are the ones in which BOTH of you decided your better off as friends, no hard feelings type shit. The ex's who put you through hell, the ex's who you did EVERYTHING for, paid for everything, drove everywhere, got cheated on by, etc ... CAN AND WILL NEVER BE "BFF" MATERIAL. Take it from someone who has tried that. Tried to be cordial and on good terms at least, etc. NOPE. They'll still fuck you over and still be immature as "friends." You'll still be driving everywhere when THEY wanna kick it because THEY'RE bored, you'll probably even get talked about behind your back. It's cool to forgive, but don't be naive. Leave it at being cordial. Don't force a friendship just to get repeatative actions unless you just trulyyy dont care. Move on. You can find better guy friends. It's a learning process, but worth it.

RIDE SOLO BEFORE TAKING A STEP BACK INTO A HORRIBLE PAST.